Life is stressful. We face different
challenges and obstacles, and sometimes the pressure is hard to handle. When we
feel overwhelmed, pushed for time or short on resources, we experience stress.
Most of the time, this is just a normal part of living, and can give us the
drive we need to get things done.
When the going gets too tough and life's demands
exceed our ability to cope, stress becomes a threat. Stress is not
the prerogative of the high-flying corporate executive, however. The
ordinary parent, student, carer, or worker is often just as liable to suffer.
Anything that forces us to adjust can be a stressor. This includes
positive events such as getting married or receiving a promotion. Regardless of
whether an event is good or bad, if the changes it brings strain our coping
skills and adaptive resources, the end result is stress.
Outside factors such as the state of the world, your work or family
situation, your financial situation and your health can generate extreme stress
levels .
However, it is not only external factors which affect our stress
levels. Our personality - the way we perceive and deal with our circumstances -
can also be a very significant factor. Psychological researchers have
known for a long time that people with certain personality traits - usually
referred to as Type A personalities - have more or
less constant high stress levels which predispose them to cardiac illness,
cancer, high blood pressure stroke and more.
It is important to understand that these personality traits CAN be
modified using psychotherapy and perhaps hypnosis, retraining the client to modify
his responses to his environment and interactions.
Something that's stressful to you may be neutral or even enjoyable
to someone else. Mostly, it´s not
the reality of a situation that causes problems, it´s
how you perceive it and react to it. Morning rush hour traffic jam
– is it a chance to sit back, listen to Classic FM or a reason to tear your
hair out? You choose!
Stress affects the mind, body, and behaviour in many ways. The
specific signs and symptoms of stress vary from person to person, but all have
the potential to harm your health, emotional well-being, and relationships with
others. Here are a few frequently found symptoms:
Mental Effects
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Memory problems.
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Difficulty making decisions.
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Inability to concentrate.
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Seeing only the negative.
Physical Effects
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Headaches.
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Muscle tension and pain.
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Sleep disturbances.
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Fatigue.
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Feelings and Emotions
Feelings.
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Moodiness
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Restlessness and anxiety.
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Anger and resentment.
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Easily irritated and “on edge”.
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Sense of being overwhelmed.
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Lack of confidence.
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Apathy.
At the Advanced Therapy Partnership, we have a great deal of
experience in helping people change their stress levels, making their lives
more comfortable, and at the same time, improving their long term health
prospects. perhaps we can help you too.